Tahoebrian5
Fractal Fanatic
I can't remember the name but someone makes a type of pick with a swivel attachment that goes in your palm. Maybe someone can remember the name. As far as holding I was always taught to make a fist, then shove the pick between thumb and first finger. First finger should remain completely curled. Those pics early in the thread with finger extended are not even close to what I've been doing. Might work okay for acoustic strumming but if you want to play lead you probably want to curl your finger.