lqdsnddist
Axe-Master
This is an interesting point. Some audiences are more discerning than others. I'm not sure if my audiences would even notice half the time. The guitarists in the audience might notice tone and level/blend, but a lot of people just notice the lead singer anyway depending on the audience of course.
I'd say make yourself happy first, your band happy second, and your audience and sound personnel happy third. After all, you and your band need to feel happy and "in sync" to play well together.
I'm not disagreeing with you per say, but just wanted to point out that I've witnessed way too many guitar players who put too much emphasis on making themselves happy first. That could mean having to put a 30 second to 2 minute solo into every song, or blasting the audience with an "ice pick" tone from a cranked up 4x12 cab with v30's in it just so they could think it sounded good from their off axis spot on stage.
I think its best to put your audience first and foremost. If you want to wank out some solo's for a half hour, you can do it at home. People paying a cover usually don't want to sit and hear that, and as your essentially there to perform, you need to give the "customer" what they want. Its very boring watch someone kneel at their pedal board and play with a delay knob for 10 minutes, know what I mean ? lol
Its just like bands that refuse to play their hits, saying their artist integrity is to do the "new stuff". Well that is fine and good if your having a free show, but when your charging people $75 for a ticket, you kind of owe it to them to play what they came to hear, know what I mean ?
Again, to each his own, no "right" answer, or one size fits all solution, but generally speaking, if you put the audience first, play a good show, of music people enjoy hearing, and with a good sound quality, you'll keep getting gigs.
Seen it way too many times when a band comes in, plays some weird stuff that only they seem to be enjoying, usually at a horribly painful volume, and then wonder why they don't get booked again anywhere. (not suggesting this is the OP by any means, just to make that clear).