I’m the first to say I’m the worlds ok’est guitar player. I have zero interest in putting in the time, energy or effort in approaching anything in the same room with who I consider “the best”. I have really zero ego with all of this shit. I have no problems playing on the same stage with a player who might be light years better than me. It’s not an Olympic sport, it’s music.
A few country gigs ago the band leader picked up the board mix from the venue. He spent 5 solid minutes trying to tap dance around constructive criticism of my playing. “Just spit it out” I finally told him
. “You should be at about 1/4 the note count you are playing”.
So that’s what I did following that conversation. And it sounded so much better that way, too.