Something which is often unmentioned in discussions of relative loudness between modelers and their real life counterparts, is the different damping factors of the modeled tube amps and the SS power amps used in any PA or monitor/FFR system. In my experience, tube amps/guitar heads have a higher perceived volume/impact that SS amps cant match, until you reach very high ratios. I needed 4 Hafler 500 watt amps to get anywhere near the same perceived volume of 2 Mesa 2/90s going through the same 4x12s.
In my rudimentary understanding, tube amps have a lower damping factor, meaning they control the speaker excursion less, and the wavefront from each note seems more impactful to the human ear because of the sloppy damping. It certainly seems that way to me, and would go a long way to explaining the phenomenon reported in the thread.
Anyone who knows more care to counter my impression or elaborate?