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It usually takes about ten takes to capture a performance that I am happy to share.
Took the Beatles well over 30 on The Long And Winding Road. The myth of the "first take" magic is just that.
It usually takes about ten takes to capture a performance that I am happy to share.
It can be a good thing. It's sort of like in football the QB sometimes settles down after he gets hit the first time.I think "bombing" in front of an audience multiple times is the best thing that can happen.. Usually you hear that word used for comedians, but it works for a lot of things.. The pressure we put on ourselves far exceeds that of what we think the audience expects so we psych ourselves out.
Have your attention now???!!!!
I say shock the mother-f'ers with some feedback and atonality. Then they might start to look
at the stage.
Have your attention now???!!!!
Regards hecklers, the way my friend coped with it was he played an old Django folk tune, followed by a Martin Taylor tune, "Musette to a Magpie."It's also good to remind ourselves that we are literally NOT the center of the universe.
Most people are self-absorbed, and chronically so. Other people are NOT thinking
about us. They are thinking about themselves.
So if and when we f**k up they probably won't even notice, because they will literally
be eye-balling some guy or gal, or wondering if they have something stuck in their teeth,
or blaming Good for yet another f'ed up hair day, or why that waitress has not yet returned
with their order.
I say shock the mother-f'ers with some feedback and atonality. Then they might start to look
at the stage.
Have your attention now???!!!!
Bingo bingo bingo.....I have seen the same.I suspect that fear and stress constitute one of the reasons that substance abuse seems so common among celebrities. I've seen it up close in friends.
There is nothing so unnerving as playing solo.I studied classical guitar in college. Nothing was more nerve wrecking than going into a concert hall BY YOURSELF and playing on stage. You provide every note by yourself and if anything is off - rhythm, pitch, tone - it all falls directly on you.
After that, I lost all sense of nerves and have become a showman in the live band situation. The only time i get nervous now is on my first gig with a new band, and even then it doesn’t compare in the slightest to going on stage as a soloist.
If you've ever recorded yourself, it might accomplish the same thing. I sense a difference when I'm recording vs. not. You wouldn't think it should matter, but it does. In the words of Steve Lukather (in an interview by Joe Bonamassa), "Can you do it when the red light is on?".I been fooling around a little on Reddit's RPAN just using the phone. I streamed through the sessions channel and had my camera focused in on a lava lamp. They kicked me off due to forum rules that live performances need musician or instrument visible. I told them I had stage fright and was using RPAN to try to challenge that. They allow me to stream under social distancing stream without being in view. First times were tough, thinking too much about it, and not able to concentrate on what I was trying to play...stage fright. Starting to get better. I will eventually focus the camera on just the guitar. I dont want to show my identity, not that it matters... just weird. I delete it after I'm done because I dont want anyone stealing my chops... I'm fooling around with original stuff. Usually have 10-20 people watching, and 400-500 views. People flip through different live streams and my stop for a second and keep flipping, some stay long time.
Seems to be helpful. I just play for me, and not in a band because of stage fright and I dont feel like it. But I wanted to challenge my inner issues.
Yes.... probably can classify different types of performance anxieties and mental distractions.If you've ever recorded yourself, it might accomplish the same thing. I sense a difference when I'm recording vs. not. You wouldn't think it should matter, but it does. In the words of Steve Lukather (in an interview by Joe Bonamassa), "Can you do it when the red light is on?".
I've always had issues with getting nervous when playing for others. I have to get control of it sort of in stages. First, I have to get comfortable just playing in front of someone, anyone, even if it's just a friend who comes over. Then, it's rehearsing with other musicians. Then it's getting on stage to play. Then it'll be that challenging solo.
Until I can get past this "stage-fright" thing, it's so bad my hands will literally shake. I cannot help it. But as I get comfortable along each step of the way, it passes, and I get control of it. But it takes a lot of times doing it. Like if I was to get together with some new guys, say if I were to audition for a band, I'd have to play with them several times before my nerves would relax. And it wouldn't even matter if I happened to be the best musician in the room. Once I get to the point where I'm always relaxed during rehearsals, then the same kind of nervousness gets me all over again the first time we play out. Fortunately it's not as bad as when I first play with a band, but it still takes several songs before I settle down, and many gigs before it all but goes away.
So tonight I tried for the 2nd time to make just a simple, short video on my phone, and my hands started shaking til I was just fucking up. Just making a stupid phone VIDEO!! I can't even convince myself mentally that it's no big deal, because if I don't get it right, I can delete the video, and do it again! UFB! The only thing that makes it go away is repetition. Being able to play whatever it is at a tempo beyond my comfort zone helps, but is still no guarantee. I hate this part of me.
I'm sure I'm not alone in dealing with nerves, so I'm curious to what extent this issue affects others, and how you deal with it. Because if I do end up getting back into playing with other musicians, in any capacity, I want to get this under control. At least a lot better than it is. It surprises my musician friends that I get it as bad as I do.