ratsnotmice
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So sorry. Hoping peace for all.
Cancer took my wife 6 years ago at at age 49.
I really hate cancer!
Cancer took my wife 6 years ago at at age 49.
I really hate cancer!
My sympathies for having to have gone through so much loss, and glad to see your sister is presently winning her battle.I’m very sorry to read this and I pray you are able to find some peace of mind during this time.
I have had more than a few family and friends lose battles to cancer. One just a few days ago. She was only 59 and a friend from high school days. I had a brother in law struggle for about 5 years with prostate cancer and then pass at 60. All 3 of my Uncles on my mother’s side died from different cancers and my oldest sister (70) is dealing with colon cancer and presently winning. Although the chemo and radiation almost killed her. I’m still trying to figure out the sense of it all.
Thank you and you take care of yourself. It’s a wonderful thing you’re doing. Sometimes it seems easier to run away from it all. It’s great you’re there for all concerned.My sympathies for having to have gone through so much loss, and glad to see your sister is presently winning her battle
This x 1,000. Could not think of a better post to read and advice to give.I'm really sorry to hear man, that is horrible.
I recently lost my father to pancreatic cancer so I have a lot of empathy for what you might be going through. It's cruel and unfair in the extreme. I'm glad you made this post and hope you have people in your life you can lean on and talk with as you go through this. People can be really 'weird' about death/loss/grief and it can surprise you who ends up being there for you and who doesn't when the time comes.
Take care of your self, and be kind to yourself - everyone's experience of grief is different, and there's no right or wrong ways to feel about things, no proper order in which to feel them, and no correct timetable to progress through them.
I'm going to raise my morning coffee mug to your brother, he sounds like a great dude and an incredibly important and positive force in your life.
Let us know how you're doing.
Take care
I've learned this myself in the last 5-6 years based on personal experience in my family. Try to be kind and give others a break...The top and bottom of it all is that you have no idea of what is going on in other people's lives.
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