Edrod
Power User
I've been slowly reducing gain in all of my sounds over time in an attempt to let every chord really shine and to force myself to develop better technique. When I listen to the OP's video, I just assume my technique hasn't reached the level required to produce that sound yet.
This is a very good point that I think gets overlooked by a lot of us. I've been doing the same, lowering my gain. I mainly use a drive to tighten my rhythm rather than drown my leads with distortion.
I struggled with the same thing the op is struggling with when I was trying to get tom quayle's tone. It took me a awhile to realize that even though the tone is important, the technique plays a major role too.