Looking for a suggestion...live, I prefer sending the FOH a signal without verb (unless it's a spring for specific effect from time to time)...however for my in ears I find that a stereo "medium room" reverb makes a big difference to me as it makes it sound more "natural" in my ears...
Not sure if sending that medium room verb to FOH will make a difference at all for the audience, since it's so subtle...but assuming I'd rather not send it to FOH what's the best method to get verb into my ears and not to FOH?
Btw; I monitor in ears via my RME Fireface UC which has zero latency monitoring, but no DSP effects...I could route the signal through Ableton to take advtange of a plugin reverb; though I would be dealing with about 12-15ms latency in that case, which I'd rather avoid...