IMO…
in many commercial recordings sounds just fine whether you’re just listening to your TV at 60db or blasting out with a high-power playback system at 120db. Achieving this wide-range ability is the goal and it only comes from learning and hard work. It’s also what separates the men from the boys. It doesn’t matter whether you’re a FOH guy, a studio mix guy, a guitar player or whatever. The pro’s do it everyday.
To start, get the patch working at low volume. All the problems like mud from too much gain - those things are heard easily there. Being conscious of the curves, sculpt the frequency spectrum allowing for what is to come (or not) with increased volume. Approach it in a manner such that if a known frequency region will be boosted with increased volume; you should pre-bias that region to the thin side at lesser volume, etc. You’re done when you’ve properly compensated for volume changes across the frequency spectrum. Try listening to your favorite tracks at the volume extremes for some insight. As volume is increased listen close to what is going on in different frequency regions. Determine what causes your guitar to go south while your favorite track is getting on just fine.
When you get this right all kinds of problems disappear too. The needed cut is there at any volume and you blend in right. As your EQ skills improve, so will the volume range the patch can more. The more you work at it the wider your tolerance window is going to be.
Edit: This only applies to quality FRFR