OP, what pickups are in your guitar?
I installed a Fishman Classic humbucker set in my Carvin guitar and the guitar now has seemingly more treble than I have ever heard from a guitar. More than my cousins Tele.
It is a lot harder to dial in tones than it should be. Much harder than my other Kiesel to find an IR that doesn’t sound painfully bright and bad.
The Kiesel with any SM57 IR I have by itself, is less bright than using the Carvin with any Royer 121 impulses by themselves.
Have you changed pickups in this guitar ?
In this guitar I've had four different sets of pickups so far:
This is a Schecter Sun Valley Super Shredder Black Limba, and it came with a set of Schecter pickups, the Pasadena and Sunset Strip. I remember thinking they were okay with a lot of gain, but I didn't find them very satisfying or dynamic.
Next I put in my Duncan Saturday Night Specials. I had them in my hardtail superstrat, a Washburn Trevor Rabin, and those things were unbelievable in that guitar, just the very best tone I could hope for. My problem is I have no class, so I have to have Floyd. So I took the Saturday Night Specials out of the Trevor Rabin and put them in the Sun Valley Super Shredder. They were not at all the same in this guitar; they just sounded anemic, and there was this harshness in the bridge I couldn't get rid of. Many demos of the Saturday Night Specials are done with Les Pauls, and coupled with my own experience, I think these pickups just play very very very well with any kind of hardtail guitar, but a Floyd needs a high output pickup to sound warm. With the next set of pickups I found my answer.
By accident I ended up getting two pairs of Asymmetrical Humbuckers, Type A and Type B, from Awesome Guitars. I wrote the owner of the company extensively with my experience with his solderless switching kits; I mean, I wrote a lot, and he was kind enough to send me his Type A set, then later, the Type B set, for comparison and review. The Type A is hotter. The unique thing about these pickups is that they're designed to maximize the difference in tone when splitting to either coil, going parallel, or series in the humbucker. And it's true, if you do dial in your tone to be dynamic, where you can really hear the nuances of your tone (my grail for this is a Plexi, or a Plexi with some kind of drive in front of it), you'll get so many different tones, it's awesome, as the company's name implies haha. But anyway, the moment I put in the Asymmetrical Type A set my guitar went from sounding kind of weak and harsh to sounding like the best Les Paul ever, and nothing about this guitar is like a Les Paul otherwise, except my wiring, where I've installed bastardized Les Paul wiring (50s for the neck and modern for the bridge) with hardwired switching to access splits to each coil, parallel, and series for each pickup using mini-switches. I did a bunch of routing under the pickguard for that, which of course changed the resonance of the guitar I'm sure. The splits and the quacks in the Type A set are all wonderful, and I can even dial in incredible parallel tones too. With the Type Bs I just found them not to have enough output to fight the Floyd. I think the deal is, at least in my experience, that the nature of Floyds just take away meat from the tone, and if you put in really nuanced pickups with low output, you're just getting a shell of a tone, but if you pair your Floyd with some badass flame throwers, you can actually get real soul out the guitar. This could all be bullshit, but it's how I see it. It could also be that this guitar has a pickguard, so the lack of direct mounting is making everything lower output more shrill or anemic. I'm sure the Awesome Type Bs would be fantastic in any hardtail.
Anyway, to the point of your question, in all these instances I went back to traditional IRs to test what worked, but no matter what I did not like the results; nothing inspired me or felt sweet or soulful, regardless of the results the preset or IR creators got in demos. But in every case, smoothing made it all better. It just made me think it's the guitar itself.
Also, although the Washburn Trevor Rabin with Saturday Night Specials is the ultimate tone machine in my mind, I still used my own captures of movable mic plugins with heavy smoothing to get what I wanted. That makes it still just a sample size of two, so not very helpful haha. I still think if Leon Todd or Brett Kingman created any one of their endless incredible presets, then handed me that very guitar, with that pickup, I wouldn't need to dial in or change a thing; it would just be great. I can alter my technique enough to cover discrepancies of tone in the fingers.
I think if I had the kind of guitar that sets the standard for tone, a Les Paul that sings, a Strat that spanks, a Tele that does whatever the hell those things do, that I'd be right at home with the traditional IRs and readily available presets as they are. But the fact is, I have just used heavily modded superstrats that I'm not using only for high gain stuff. I'm all over place tonally, and I'm always dry. I just like the raw sound of an amp and cab, and maybe a drive if I need it, but that's it, so the frequencies won't be helped at all by compression or reverb or even a colorful delay. It's just dry, unlubricated. So I'm way more susceptible to harshness.
One last point: even with my Awesome Asymmetrical Type As, the best tones I get are when I dial in the gain I want with the tone and volume knobs at 10, but then I roll back the volume to about 9 and the tone back to about 5. I use very low value tone caps that allow me to roll back for a usable tone even at zero. Anyway, no matter what, I find the tone sweeter when I mute it off the the bat that way; it just speaks more. I've actually been thinking of installing some trimpots to make the sweetness permanent, to make my guitar even more of a Les Paul in my mind, tonally.