Q: Which is the most self centered State?
A: Maine. It's always about ME!
To Forum members and beyond:
According to the rules of comedy, we should recall that speaking in the first person commonly draws attention to oneself, intentionally, or unintentionally, which we discovered when we were much younger and our parents reminded us about the letter "I" in team. As we grew older, we realized that in order to speak to an audience, it was necessary to reflect or acknowledge the first speaker's words so that it would show we were listening to them. In time, we also sensed the value of speaking in the first person for comedic effect.
Yet, we often recognized when comments were made that were not intended for good purposes or would be perceived as cutting remarks; not well-intended. And for these things, we had to forgive the other guy for being a blockhead. Some have a good gift for humor, others might use it as a means to an end.
Let us recall the fact that when people call you names or belittle you, they are the ones guilty of bullying or abusing. A sense of humor is a wonderful thing. Don't push your luck with people, and they may actually be friendlier and more caring as a result. Even a gigging guitarist might need to deal with the hecklers in the audience. Remind the heckler the value of humor, and when they speak, say, "It's your nickel."
That being said, chose your words wisely. Realize that when you forgive the blockhead, he may just have been having an off-day, is tired, or could use an arm/shoulder. Note I didn't say BBQ rib and corn on the cob. There'll be plenty of time for that as the season progresses.
