If you write where you live, I am sure someone will help you.
I've had people ask me at gigs about my rig, so I just tell them to bring their guitar to one of my soundchecks and play through the AxeFX once the band is finished checking. I usually have some unstructured time before I need to do something official, and I'm willing to give people a chance to check out my setup and give it a quick test drive.
I have a friend in Seattle who was interested in the AxeFX, and I invited him to my house for dinner and an extended test drive (paired with a lovely bottle of wine). That's obviously something that I would reserve for people I know pretty well. By the way, he bought one and is very happy with it. You'll be seeing him added to the artist page
The simple truth is, that if you're curious about the AxeFX, all you really have to do is look at the
Fractal Artist Page. It's reasonable to assume that Alex Lifeson, Steve Vai, Adrian Belew, John Petrucci, and Dweezil Zappa can have pretty much any guitar rig they desire, regardless of price / size / scarcity. They are all AxeFX users, playing a very wide variety of musical styles, and every one of them offers superlative praise about the AxeFX.
Fractal Audio has a return policy if you're unhappy. The system probably isn't ideal for everyone. If you just want a simple plug-and-play guitar processor with a handful of preset tones, you might find it to be overkill. It's pretty easy to understand and to get fantastic results (especially with the Axe-Edit sofware), but I know musicians who would rather just have a Line6 POD or even separate pedals. No problem. I still have a Line6 M9 on my "grab and go" small pedalboard, along with my favorite compressor. However, the AxeFX has completely changed my approach to tone building. I am selling my Boogie Lonestar, a big pedalboard with boutique (Keeley, Empress, Strymon, Wampler, etc) pedals, and my TC Electronic G Force processor. My touring / recording rig is just the AxeFXII XL into a pair of FRFR cabs. I'm a believer.