Any SR provider (Festival or house) worth a d*mn has DI's a plenty! I have about 10 of them (varying brands/types/features) and I'm a very SMALL provider. It probably doesn't hurt to carry your own, but should
not be a requirement. Certainly don't need
Radial quality for live work (tho' I'd be happy if you brought one).
Unless the venue is ANCIENT, most [modern] consoles with a decent channel count (16+) have: phantom power (some per channel); EQ bypass button; swept (parametric) EQ's; line/mic switch (or equivalent pad capability); mono/stereo channels; yada, yada, yada.
It [still] amazes me from reading this thread that SR providers you guys are working with do not appear to have the basic gear needed to adjust to something small like direct feed vs. mic. I would never provide SR for a festival without advancing it - getting stage plots, band order, tech riders (if any) and so on. Not doing so [IMHO] is like you showing up to a gig without your guitar!!
I hear what you're saying.
But think of it this way: in any live sound situation, there are so many variables and so many little things that can go wrong. Any one of those little things can bring your tech setup to a screeching halt.
So it doesn't hurt, and costs a small amount of money, to be prepared for the unexpected! Lots of us (myself included) don't play larger venues, and/or nicely equipped venues, and/or even PROPERLY equipped venues.
What kind of unexpected little things? I'll list a few from my own (limited) experience as a performer, and (limited) experience on sound crew:
the dirtbags in the previous band STOLE the house DIs
the intern stage hand assisting you insists he will only plug you into the snake via a DI, since that's what he's been told to do for synths, and the engineer who knows better is 100' away at FOH, and you have five minutes to plug in, power up, and soundcheck
someone spilled soda on the console, the Line Input channels are fried, and the mic channels don't have pads
you need the XLR outs of the Axe for your personal monitoring setup - no house monitors - and you have to connect the unbalanced 1/4" outs to the house PA
the engineer insists that you HAVE to use a DI, even though your Axe is three feet from his console, and you have handed him a XLR cable connected to the Axe's XLR out, and politely suggested he just plug it right into a mic input which you can see has a pad -- not making this one up
I'm sure others can think of dozens more scenarios.
Not saying these situations are right... or best practice...
but i do think it's best practice and "stage smart" to bring some basic Swiss Army Knife-type tools to the gig.
Cheers -- am enjoying this conversation, and hope my posts (and opinions) aren't coming across as rude or disrespectful