So as I just said thank you all for your advice a combination of it seems to have helped GREATLY. I still get some sort of fizzy air on a FEW presets if i let a palm mute ring out, but it's almost entirely gone and that's only on some presets, and for the most part i'm able to dial in usable presets now by:
1: going to the preset leveling tool in tools in axe edit and turning them down to about -35 then saving them
2: turning on plate suppressor diodes under the power tubes page
3: switching the power to DC on the power supply page
4: turning the master bias excursion to 0 on the dynamics page
5: lowering the high cut in the Cab's "Cab More" page to 10,000 and increasing the high slope to 24db/Oct on each mic/speaker
6: On many but not all turning the boost level down to 6 from the default of 12
7: changing the saturation drive to 2.000 from 6.000
8: changing the low cut frequency to 20hz and the high cut frequency to 10,000hz
9: again not on all of them but changing the tonestack frequency to 600 from 1000 (if it was even set to 1000)
10: on a few turning treble/presence down a bit
11: in extreme cases where there was still too much fizz turning off the input boost.
12: in cases where i had both a GEQ and PEQ after the amp, got rid of at least the GEQ
So in any case this combination of things has helped greatly so thank you all for these suggestions (especially #2/3/4 as i NEVER in a million years would have thought of that and those things seemed to actually make the biggest difference).
SO i still don't know why i get some fizzy air a tiny bit on a few of them (i don't with the les paul so i suspect it's the active pickups? that's about the only difference, plus if i turn the active pickup guitars tone knob all the way to muddy, 100% the opposite of how i want it to sound, it chills out).