I have a very different perspective.
It was a very niche sport, but I did that in high school and into college. It was a good bit of travel, national level competitions, Junior Olympics, a World Cup, travel to train with coaches who had Olympic medals and world records, etc.. It was kind of "what I did" for about 5 years. (No, it wasn't soccer - there are world cups for most olympic sports.)
I was practicing, training, or competing ~6 days/week for most of the year, less but not zero during summers. I was also in the top hundred or so to top couple dozen in the US at different points in time.
Yes, it obviously impacted my life. My parents were very involved, eventually as licensed officials, and obviously facilitating travel and paying for everything. Both of them ended up volunteering for high-school and some national level matches for years after I had quit to focus on College (it wasn't possible to do both, and I picked a "better" school instead of one of the ones that offered me a scholarship....which I now believe may have been a mistake).
But, it was always my choice. I was never forced into it.
I guess you could call it negative that I didn't socialize or date all that much outside of it. I still had friends outside of it, and we still did stuff together....just not during the week or on Saturday mornings. It was also a co-ed sport. I dated a bit, but the only actual girlfriend I had in high school was a teammate. Fortunately, it didn't create any drama...somehow. Most of my close friends were also teammates, but I'm under the impression that's kind of normal.
I also got two state championship rings and a giant pile of medals out of it. And I tried out for the Olympics in 2004 (I wasn't going to make it; I finished that match in like 18th place, IIRC. They took 2.)
I look back on those years very fondly. The only reason I don't still do it as a hobby is just that after training and competing at that level, if I'm not training at least 30 hours/week and competing at that level, it feels like a complete waste of time. I still do somewhat related things, just not exactly the same, and I have fun with them. But, I don't have that kind of time.
If you're going to do it, IMHO, you need to start when you don't have real responsibilities.
Parents forcing kids into something like that....I have an issue with that. But letting them do something they're interested in and taking it as far as they want to and can....I'm all for it.
It was a very niche sport, but I did that in high school and into college. It was a good bit of travel, national level competitions, Junior Olympics, a World Cup, travel to train with coaches who had Olympic medals and world records, etc.. It was kind of "what I did" for about 5 years. (No, it wasn't soccer - there are world cups for most olympic sports.)
I was practicing, training, or competing ~6 days/week for most of the year, less but not zero during summers. I was also in the top hundred or so to top couple dozen in the US at different points in time.
Yes, it obviously impacted my life. My parents were very involved, eventually as licensed officials, and obviously facilitating travel and paying for everything. Both of them ended up volunteering for high-school and some national level matches for years after I had quit to focus on College (it wasn't possible to do both, and I picked a "better" school instead of one of the ones that offered me a scholarship....which I now believe may have been a mistake).
But, it was always my choice. I was never forced into it.
I guess you could call it negative that I didn't socialize or date all that much outside of it. I still had friends outside of it, and we still did stuff together....just not during the week or on Saturday mornings. It was also a co-ed sport. I dated a bit, but the only actual girlfriend I had in high school was a teammate. Fortunately, it didn't create any drama...somehow. Most of my close friends were also teammates, but I'm under the impression that's kind of normal.
I also got two state championship rings and a giant pile of medals out of it. And I tried out for the Olympics in 2004 (I wasn't going to make it; I finished that match in like 18th place, IIRC. They took 2.)
I look back on those years very fondly. The only reason I don't still do it as a hobby is just that after training and competing at that level, if I'm not training at least 30 hours/week and competing at that level, it feels like a complete waste of time. I still do somewhat related things, just not exactly the same, and I have fun with them. But, I don't have that kind of time.
If you're going to do it, IMHO, you need to start when you don't have real responsibilities.
Parents forcing kids into something like that....I have an issue with that. But letting them do something they're interested in and taking it as far as they want to and can....I'm all for it.