There's a lesson in that somewhere, I think.
Yup: We're picky about what we care about. When you 'live' in a zone you become very particular about things that feel completely arbitrary to someone who just 'visits' it occasionally.
Think cars... if you are
not into sports cars, but just wanted to feel the occasional thrill of speed and acceleration of driving fast, you might rent a fast car for the day/week or if your budget allowed buy a second car you drive four or five times a year. In that scenario, it probably makes sense to just look at specs and rent a reputable car with a good zero to sixty speed, solid handling characteristics, top speed, etc (and airbags
) and maybe even most important *looks* cool.
But, if you race them or collect them and drive several very high spec vehicles day in and day out and become very familiar with them or use them in specific scenarios (i.e. that is the zone you 'live' in): they will feel and perform completely different from from one another for that guy. Things that are completely inconsequential to the casual user are instantly recognizable. You will develop strong preferences for one vehicle in certain conditions (say top speed, straight line, weather conditions, etc) or find a particular brand suits your driving style and taste. You would be able to tell them apart instantly even if there was way to do a blind driving test (do not attempt).
So, the casual 'visitor' can drive a Ferrari or a Porsche or the New 'Vette for the day and be like 'that was fun, I could enjoy any of those bad boys' they might have some initial or weak preference for one or the other based on testing, etc, but for the most part "those are all pretty cool". Whereas, the collector/enthusiast is like "that new Porsche 911 completely blows compared to last year's model, I can't believe they ruined it" and the other dude just scratches his head.
So in tone land, for some reason the edge of break up guys always seem to understand that there is deep variation for their own stuff but more frequently than other tone fans seem to not understand that it applies to other types of tones... IMHO. But, in truth, all of us tone hounds sound like goofballs of the same stripe to an outsider which is probably something we would do well to remember.