My experience with this when I'm jamming with my drummer using my Axe Fx is that when I'm not directly in front of my cab I tend to question the quality of my sound because it doesn't seem to fill the room like my tube amp does. However, once I stand in the "beam zone" of my cab I'm instantly extremely satisfied with what I'm hearing.
Is this the "feel" aspect that everyone is referring to?
I think that's so. However, that "Beam zone" thing you're talking about has nothing to do with the axe's realism per se. How the "amp fills the room" depends solely on 2 things: Your cab, and volume.
If you're using the same orange cab for both ur tube rig and axe, then the difference your getting comes from volume
The following is a bit long and boring asperger explanation that might be wrong, someone please correct me if so. But it might explain this Beam Zone thing, and how it has nothing to do with how realistic the axe's emulations are.
Most likely you had to crank your tube amp loud (louder than you think it was -explanation later on-) to get a good sound. Since that's not necesarily the case with the axe, where you can crank an amp's power amp without actually increasing the volume, you won't have your cab blasting your skin out of your skull, and you won't be filling your room with the sound.
What if you go to a concert at a stadium, and the band doesn't go through a PA, and you're standing way in the back?
The band will get "whole and full" sound from their amps, and you'll hear a shitty and weak sound.
Same thing applies here. The louder it gets, the more it fills. Period.
To be a little more specific, it's not even about volume, but power, or sound pressure level (volume: percieved sound pressure level). If you place a 100 watt head, and a 200 watt head both in front of you, inside a closed hangar, you will hear very little, if any difference in volume
(Whut?! How could that be?! D: !!).
There comes a point where things are so loud, that your body will start raising inner pressure in your middle ear to protect your eardrums, and from that point on, any more outter sound pressure will mean a raise in inner pressure to compensate, hence, when stading in front of em, you'll notice little difference in volume between the both of em, even though one's a 100watts more powerfull (This is why volume
-sound pressure level perception- is logarithmic). However, if you start walking away from the amps, you'll notice the 200 watt amp sounds just as loud as when you were stading in front of it, but the 100watt's sound will get weaker. If you go as far as you can across the hangar, you'll clearly hear a difference in volume.
As far as possible from both amps, you'll notice the 200watt amp sounds just as good, but the 100watter will sound darker, and it will give you the feeling that it's not filling the room. This is because the 100watter does not have enough power for the higher frequency sound pressure waves to reach to you, and they will vanish half through the way to you, something that won't happen with the 200watt amp. In fact the 200watt amp is pushing the air so hard, it will probably still sound the same as when you were in front of it, cos none of the audible sound pressure waves were lost along the way from insufficient power. (Exaggerated example, there will be some loss)
(Also, this is a very simplified explanation that covers the basic idea, but there's also wave interference, temperature, wavefront perception and other wave phenomena involved)
Now, use this same example with your axe and ur amp in ur room.
You might think you have your axe loud, but if by moving away it feels like it's losing tone,or it's not filling the room, it means it's not loud enough. Turn the volume up, and even though you might not hear a considerable raise in volume, there will be a considerable raise in air sound pressure level that will fill the whole room.
TL;DR
The axe is full of emulated things, but there's just no emulation for LOUD. Just crank the SS amp bud, it'll fill the room just fine.