Agree to disagree, no your limits, slowly pass them with good technique incrementally.
Most people with injuries either have bad technique/over train/bad genetics/accidents, or in my case years of corticosteriods for asthma in my youth(eats away at soft tissue).
Staying in shape and finding a way to stay fit in spite of chronic pain is as much about mental health as physical heath. Sorry about your body failing you, getting old sucks, I choose to deal with some treatable pain(CBD oils) and continue my lifestyle.
To be clear, I would not suggest to the OP to lift himself into injury, straps(never wore a belt, just keep core strong) will promote confidence as he starts lifting heavier weights. You'll still need common sense when it comes to progressing to heavier weights.
And not everybody that has lifted all their life winds up like your situation. I know a lot of old people that have lifted their entire adult life, that have no traumatic effects from having done so. Someone that has tried to exceed their genetics, often through chemical means(not accusing anyone!!) will pay the price.
Good luck to the OP, get a couple of books about power-lifting or join a board about it and ASK, ASK, ASK questions. Most of all be patient about your progress. Yes you can hurt yourself if your not careful, but proper technique will reward your efforts with slow steady progress. So will proper nutrition and rest.
Tried EVERYTHING for pain...Tylenol, ibuprofen, CBD oil, opiates (Norco and Oxy), 3 spinal epidurals, and MJ. The ONLY thing that came close to giving me any relief was vaping THC at night. Needless to say, after surgery, all was moot as I’m pain free now (minus the other arthritis). If you’ve ever experienced chronic 24/7 pain, you’d understand how some weaker minded folks could commit suicide. Yes, it can get that bad. You see, the bad hip also gave me herniated disks in my back (due to walking off center) and the feeling my knees were grinding (in reality, it was all my hip). After surgery it took over two years for my other leg to heal - you see it effected my Achilles’ tendon in my other leg as well.
I’ve been lifting and in shape for over 40 years. I’m a former cross country runner and marine, pretty sure I know how to work out and, coming from the USMC, most certainly get the “no pain, no gain” mantra.
Additionally, I ripped my right bicep...think it was from lifting beyond my capabilities? Wrong. I was reaching to get my dog her food and it simply snapped. This was while I was in PT rehabilitation after my hip replacement so the over exerted theory doesn’t apply.
If you’re 58, pain and arthritis free, good for you. You should be glad you have descent genetics. Unfortunately we can’t choose our genetics, and, unfortunately for me, inherited most of my mothers genes (and physical ailments). Had nothing to do with “bad form.”
I can bike, hike, have an extremely bad ass ascent trainer, and home gym, just can’t run or do any kind of squats or lunges anymore.