weird guitar person
Experienced
Fair enough. I distinguish abusive language as intended to cause harm or otherwise shared recklessly in a manner that will objectively cause harm. The OP expressed his discomfort on page one, and later said he regretted posting at all. I have no evidence of him being a particularly sensitive person, and yet on and on it went from there. Hence my feeling like posting about it. With a shared concern for marginalizing folks that have suffered serious trauma, and having known many personally, I wonder, how do you define abuse?I really appreciate your thoughts and where you are coming from, and have a sense of
your spiritual/philosophical leanings. I am just not on board with the use of the word
"abuse." It seems more than a stretch, and leads me to wonder if it also can serve to
marginalize and diminish folks who actually do suffer from the "abuse" of others.
My reading of the comments is that some of them are at best playful poking and ribbing,
bu8t get nowhere near close to anything I would label as "abusive."
What constitutes bullying? Expressions like "poking," "ribbing," and "chops busting," are interesting in that they are all physical expressions that serve to diminish the seriousness of the targeted person or persons’ concern. The idea that we need a particularly thick skin to interact in good faith on a guitar modeling forum seems worthy of reconsideration.