I don't understand what you said Chris. It depends on how you set the input and output, diffusion, early reflections, pre delay, etc.
do you have a simple amp with reverb around?
set a clean tone and set a volume that's good for the room when you play guitar at a medium intensity.
now set the reverb amount to something where you can hear it well while playing at that medium intensity.
if you play harder than medium intensity, the reverb will be louder.
if you play less hard than medium intensity, the reverb will be less loud.
the reverb level won't be the same level whether you play hard or soft; it's volume will change with how hard you play. this is the same concept if you turn your amp level parameter down - the reverb won't be "stuck" at the same loudness.
as i said before, reverb is a sort of "echo" of the input signal - if the input signal is quiet, the reverb will be quiet. if the input signal gets loud, the reverb will be louder.
that's how it works with mixers and rack fx too - either serial or aux-mixed. if i set my reverb so it sounds good when i sing at a normal volume, if i start whispering, the reverb won't suddenly be way too loud.
and now that i think about it.... that's exactly how a ROOM works too. if i speak quietly, there isn't reverberation. but if i start yelling, my voice starts to reverberate in the room and i hear "reverb." just like the axe-fx signal chain - turning the level down in one block also reduces the volume respectively in other blocks - there are exceptions, but for reverb and delay, this is how it works. just like a real room and any other reverb/delay units.
i'm concerned that when you lower the Level parameter in the amp block, you say your preset immediately becomes "too wet." can you show us an audio example of this? or can you post a preset or screen shot so we can see how things are routed?