Dinkledorf said:
I use V-Picks, specifically the Screamer. I came from Dunlop Stubby's (2 and 3mm) and have been using thick picks for a long time. I cannot use nor have I ever liked thin picks. The Screamer is pretty thick (seems to be about 3-4mm) but is very sharp.
Been there, done that. Such hard picks WILL have a lot of pick attack no matter what you do, unless you use extreme eqs, gain or wetness that will determine your tone. That is, you won't be able to choose your tone, but you will have a tone imposed by your pick attack band-aids.
You say you don't like thin picks. If I were you, I would throw away or hide all the hard picks you have, and start using ONLY soft bendable ones. Of course it will be hard at first, but come back to us in 3 months and telll us
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