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...That may be part of the issue...I've got a couple heart and cholesterol meds that causes general fatigue, memory, and sleep concerns when there weren't any before...a recent adjustment of a separate med is helping me to not feel so tired afternoons or evenings.
Definitely…I first dealt with my mother 20 years ago when at 80 the dr. decided to put her on a cholesterol med. She was reasonably alert for her age at that point, but quickly I noticed a decline in memory and energy and just her overall spirit. At the time I did a good bit of reading on the Statins and realized then the issues. Don’t get me wrong I have seen these medication do what they’re suppose to do and bring people including my wife into good levels. Like you they adjusted things and changed the exact med and the side effects are not as bad.

I was more upset about my mother. I figured if she made it to 80 along with her cholesterol not being that bad why put her on another med that is known to have adverse side effects. However it was the new breakthrough drug and the medical industry love these things. On the other hand I had a Brother in Law die of a massive heart attack at 37. This was back in 1979 when heart health was just beginning to get more attention. His issues had a strong hereditary component and something like these meds could have been a life saver given early diagnosis and of course being in existence. So for those who have a genetic predisposition to high cholesterol at a young age they are probably miracle drugs.
 
Definitely…I first dealt with my mother 20 years ago when at 80 the dr. decided to put her on a cholesterol med. She was reasonably alert for her age at that point, but quickly I noticed a decline in memory and energy and just her overall spirit. At the time I did a good bit of reading on the Statins and realized then the issues. Don’t get me wrong I have seen these medication do what they’re suppose to do and bring people including my wife into good levels. Like you they adjusted things and changed the exact med and the side effects are not as bad.

I was more upset about my mother. I figured if she made it to 80 along with her cholesterol not being that bad why put her on another med that is known to have adverse side effects. However it was the new breakthrough drug and the medical industry love these things. On the other hand I had a Brother in Law die of a massive heart attack at 37. This was back in 1979 when heart health was just beginning to get more attention. His issues had a strong hereditary component and something like these meds could have been a life saver given early diagnosis and of course being in existence. So for those who have a genetic predisposition to high cholesterol at a young age they are probably miracle drugs.
Statins may work for some, but they made me feel lethargic, depressed, and mildly suicidal, no matter which one the docs tried. The last one they tried FUBARed my dopamine and serotonin for years after stopping its use....
 
Statins may work for some, but they made me feel lethargic, depressed, and mildly suicidal, no matter which one the docs tried. The last one they tried FUBARed my dopamine and serotonin for years after stopping its use....
The atorvastatin has got a handle on controlling the cholesterol...the Lipitor is the BP med that went from 25 to 50 to 100 back to 75mg. Apparently, my diet still consists of too many salty foods that cause aterial-venial constriction. Trying to find a good balance between a weak heartbeat and a strong one consists of finding balance between the cholesterol, BP and salt factors. I'm OK for now, but worry about hitting too high a stress level that might knock me out.
 
Interesting. I've been on atorvastatin for maybe 4-6 months (I'm terrible w how long or when anything), and i haven't noticed any mental or emotional side effects. When my pcp suggested it, i asked my brother about it, since he's an md, and at the time he thought it was just a good med, w pretty much only advantages. I can check again at some point, see if his feeling has changed.

I've also been on ozempic for a bit over a year, lost about 45 lbs, and chilled out my not very bad diabetes (my dad had it and one of my two brothers does too) too, so there are other reasons for me to feel pretty good.

My wife is on atorvastatin too, but her health, emotional situation, and medications are much more complicated than mine, so it's hard to say anything meaningful.

Meds that do you wrong are a huge drag. There are no solid rules for what's going to work for any given person, which is incredible shitty and frustrating. (Ask my daughter, who has ehlers-danlos syndrome, and a crapton of pretty serious related issues she and a million docs have been ineffectively chasing for years.)
 
If you eschew well, and in the right place, that can actually enhance romance. ;)
Seriously, though, if I manage to get out of this relationship alive, and ever talk about getting into another, I hope the listener is kind enough to shoot me in the face with a 12 ga. slug....
 
Wow, after reading these comments, no wonder I'm divorced…and loving it. At 72 all I want to do is play my guitar and take care of my animals. And remember, in the words of the late great actor, Mickey Rooney, "The reason you pay a hooker is to leave."
It's not very moral but another version of that is : The women that you didn't pay cost you most.

That said : living since 1988 with one woman, married in 1992 and we leave one another at total peace, despite of some export jobs and lots of professional traveling. Where we live we have a lot of space and can (almost) pass the day at home without crossing. I've always been playing in small bands but lately I spend more time with music than the 40 years before, preparing an "amateur tour" of 20 regional gigs this summer. Guess I should take care regarding at what's been written hereabove ;-).
 
The atorvastatin has got a handle on controlling the cholesterol...the Lipitor is the BP med that went from 25 to 50 to 100 back to 75mg. Apparently, my diet still consists of too many salty foods that cause aterial-venial constriction. Trying to find a good balance between a weak heartbeat and a strong one consists of finding balance between the cholesterol, BP and salt factors. I'm OK for now, but worry about hitting too high a stress level that might knock me out.
That was one of them. Don’t remember which was the last, but not accepting any scripts fot any statins, and have entered them as an allergy in my records....
 
Interesting. I've been on atorvastatin for maybe 4-6 months (I'm terrible w how long or when anything), and i haven't noticed any mental or emotional side effects. When my pcp suggested it, i asked my brother about it, since he's an md, and at the time he thought it was just a good med, w pretty much only advantages. I can check again at some point, see if his feeling has changed.
Just want to put a disclaimer that there’s no need to question your meds based on what someone says on a gear forum. If you’re not having any problems and they are working then talk with your doctor if you have any questions. As far as statin side effects go they’re well known and varied. The main one that just about everyone I have known who takes them complain about is sore muscles and just general body aches. The other is brain fog. Like always some people have no side effects or they’re not noticeable. There are many different “statins” now than when they first came out. From what I understand they are not as bad, but also not as effective. They work fine for those who have milder issues. Dosage plays a big role in these things.

One more thing…I have a sister who was in the medical field 50 years (supervising RN of ICU for at least 35 yrs) and I have learned the industry is very protective of itself and doesn’t take doubt or criticism from who they consider “lay people” easily. We all saw how bad it can be during the Covid BS.
 
Just want to put a disclaimer that there’s no need to question your meds based on what someone says on a gear forum. If you’re not having any problems and they are working then talk with your doctor if you have any questions....The main one that just about everyone I have known who takes them complain about is sore muscles and just general body aches. The other is brain fog. Like always some people have no side effects or they’re not noticeable.

One more thing…I have a sister who was in the medical field 50 years (supervising RN of ICU for at least 35 yrs) and I have learned the industry is very protective of itself and doesn’t take doubt or criticism from who they consider “lay people” easily. We all saw how bad it can be during the Covid BS.
And while many prefer to not risk their health, how often do we hear of cardio-vascular patients experiencing heart-related events during winter snow-shoveling, or whenever a patient overdoes it and suffers a cardiac arrest?

TBH, my health is not the greatest, and hopefully will be contacting my doctor regarding a home sleep apnea test if my propensity for afternoon naps doesn't decrease.

With due respect for the medical community, there are dietary and exercise behaviors one can pursue rather than risk cardiac events.
 
It took a lot of broken relationships for me to finally realize that I didn't need, or now want to be in a relationship.

Happiest I've ever been is the present, being alone but with some woman 'friends'.
 
Interesting. I've been on atorvastatin for maybe 4-6 months (I'm terrible w how long or when anything), and i haven't noticed any mental or emotional side effects. When my pcp suggested it, i asked my brother about it, since he's an md, and at the time he thought it was just a good med, w pretty much only advantages. I can check again at some point, see if his feeling has changed...

...Meds that do you wrong are a huge drag. There are no solid rules for what's going to work for any given person, which is incredible shitty and frustrating. (Ask my daughter, who has ehlers-danlos syndrome, and a crapton of pretty serious related issues she and a million docs have been ineffectively chasing for years.)
Agreed. Too often people place an emphasis on relief or fixing a problem from a drug treatment program compared with simply treating the symptoms. There may never be a cure for mankind's health woes, we might only expect that meds or procedures for treatment of our symptoms will partially solve our problems, and perhaps we might need be satisfied with that.

IOW, I don't want to be a junkie constantly in need of a fix. Prescription meds have shown partial relief from symptoms, but if someone experiences pain and suffering a greater portion of of the time, there's gotta be a better way than recreational substances which do more harm than good.

Most times, the pain manifests itself as a head or body ache of some kind. The aging population can attest to the fact that older adults unable to care for themselves adequately suffer as much if not more than younger adults. Yet younger adults often live for the moment, and not put any thought into what risks they take now their futures will bring. Let me repeat that: "Thought into what risks they take now their futures will bring."

The only personal advice I might give someone who takes medication for treating specific symptoms but has not yet some form of modest relief; be upfront with your PCP, and ask what available and reliably tested prescription medications there are for someone with your individual condition. One of the doctor's tried and true responses will be a life-style change of dietary intake and exercise. To this I enthusiastically said, "Yes, though with exercise comes the need for rest and recovery. I thought the point of exercise was to strengthen and tone for endurance?" The doc said, "Yes, as you shed excess weight (first water weight, then burning carbs and fat calories) you'll notice your focus and endurance levels increase. In time, the feel-good endorphins will replace the fatigued feeling you may have simply because you won't be carrying around all that excess weight.

While my home vegetable gardening will be taking a year off this year to allow my garden to replenish its nutrients with a cover crop, the time I'd usually spend plus extra during the spring and moderately warm months will include walks about town and to the ball park. My feeling is that not only will my physical health benefit, but also my mental and emotional health because it simplifies and mitigates the greater risks associated with the future.

Want to get rid of the emotional or physical baggage that's causing you pain? Simplify your environment so as you not allow what you own, own you. The definition of keeping things simple might involve organizing or removing excess decor, and thinking in a more minimalist manner. The fewer distractions might be less likely to be a source of conflict and actually finding what works compared to what is just "filler."
 
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