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I Lost my wife last night

Xrocker

Power User
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After a horrific five year battle with cancer my life partner is finally out of pain.

She walked in to one of my shows 24 years ago and we’ve been together ever since.we never saw the point of a formal ceremony but we shared all of life’s ups and downs and were as there for each other as much as any couple could ever be.

Its a rare thing to find someone who could put up with a music obsessed musician for 24 years. I know it wasn’t easy.

I could always call her in the middle of the night to talk about how my show went. I’m going to miss that.

Love you babe! I’ve lost my anchor and I’m so lost without you.
 

PRSfreak4

Power User
Love you babe! I’ve lost my anchor and I’m so lost without you.

Sorry to hear this, will be praying for peace and comfort during your grieving @Xrocker. Also, that a new anchor can be established for you replacing at least a part of that void in some way.

#CancerSucks
#CancelCancer
 

maxdown

Fractal Fanatic
So sorry to hear this. My deepest condolences.

The poem by Elizabeth Frye sometimes says it best when losing the closest person you have in life. Their pain and suffering is gone but their free spirit will live on with you and for you


Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.
 

raccoon

Inspired
Sorry to hear this.
I'm with you.
My condolences.

I met my wife 21 years ago in a Metal Club and since then we are together and I raised with her 3 daughters she already had.

Last Friday she had CT and cancer is back...
1st diagnosis was December 2019.

Now we will see if second surgery or other therapy is possible...
 

Dave Merrill

Fractal Fanatic
So sorry for your loss, you've been through a lot in that time.
It's not really a comfort, but it's good she's out of pain.
I'll be thinking of you.
 

Dave Merrill

Fractal Fanatic
Sorry to hear this.
I'm with you.
My condolences.

I met my wife 21 years ago in a Metal Club and since then we are together and I raised with her 3 daughters she already had.

Last Friday she had CT and cancer is back...
1st diagnosis was December 2019.

Now we will see if second surgery or other therapy is possible...
Oh man, good luck with that, keep us posted (if you want).

My wife's been cancer free for quite a while now, but I don't take anything for granted. All of this is fleeting, whatever we wish.
 

Strumzilla

Power User
Very sorry for your loss. May she RIP. She'll live on in the memories of those who knew and loved her.
 
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