Hey, from one guy who rang the “all clear” bell to one who is surely going to do it as well, I’m pulling for you! Stick with your plan, trust the team, keep positive all the time. The attitude keeps you chugging along, and takes a huge load off of your care group, especially the wife.
I am an hour south of you, and very sincerely offer to come to town if you ever need a hand. I’ll PM my cell # to you.