When I was engaged to marry my current wife, I had a female coworker who was like a best (platonic) friend. We called her my "weekday girlfriend" while my fiancee was my "weekend girlfriend". One night my ex-wife and her girlfriend were in town, and all four women came to watch me play pool in my weekly pool league match. We all sat at the same table and still laugh about the time I went on a "date" with my weekday girlfriend, my weekend girlfriend, my ex-wife, and her girlfriend. Best part of that night was watching all my clueless pool league buddies trying to pick up on my lesbian ex and her girlfriend.My Ex wife comes to more gigs than my current. Sometimes they are both there along with old girlfriends. Yikes! I prefer to play in front of strangers. It makes the break so much more comfortable.
My band isn't interested in any 'missus'.My missus isn't interested in my bands!!