It depends on the gig. We both use the same method normally. Run one out of the axe to an atomic wedge pointed at our faces, the other to foh. When we can, we use in ear monitoring, so no wedges.
Last weekend the venue told us they had a full house pa, but when we showed up, they only had 2 monitors that shared a mix, so I asked for 2 aux sends direct from the board, ran those to the atomics, gave one to the drummer, one to bass player, put the house monitors up front. I pulled my wireless in ears out, put the unit on top of the foh rack and took a feed off an aux there. Those atomics keep turning out to be amazing purchases over and over.
How are you doing your monitoring, java?